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I guess I shouldn't be surprised that my video is probably being posted in trans forums since it's one of the most comprehensive ones out thee but yeah, the way it's being perceived thinking I'm "trans indenial" is just a cope on their end. It's okay to be a feminine man and a masculine woman and hopefully with time, they will understand that.

​@KaiDecadence I swear the way people talk about you on these forums and profiles from different social media platforms is excessively aggressive... Despite your criticisms on transgenderism, you never once come off as 'hateful' or 'bigoted'. You simply explain why you don't believe you can change yourself sex and how it's not a healthy ideology, but folks make you out to be this terrible person who harasses others or as they put it, "spread propaganda". I'll say it again, it's really admirable how you stand firm in this despite the unfair treatment you get. I try not to place you on a pedestal 😅 but you're definitely strong-willed.

Thanks lol

Hello. I actually made a community post about it but to give the cliff notes, it's absolutely shameful. Both of those men are cheats and never should've been allowed to compete in women's sports. I really hope that Khelif gets his gold medal revoked and goes onto the proverbial wall of shame alongside with Lia Thomas, Fallon Fox, and Laurel Hubbard.

@KaiDecadence oh cool. How do I check out your community post? Yeah agree with you. I think they both knew they are men. I was told that coaches actually go around looking for biological men with DSDs who they can tout off as women in sports. These gender self ID laws and gender passport laws in lot of countries allowed this to happen.

@@9395gb If you go on my RUclips page, click the "community" tab and you'll see it. The IOC tested positive for them being men last year and disqualified them but for some reason they let them compete in the women's sports this year, it's just messed up. And yeah I heard about that as well and it can make sense why they'd scout them in less developed countries that they can use to sneak them in.

@@KaiDecadence Well I know people in the boxing world and they said there were multiple complaints about Imane Khelif and Lin Yu-Ting for years even before the International Boxing Association did their investigation. The IBA actually had no choice but to do a test because there were so many complaints and a few of the women boxers were basically ending up badly damaged and injured. I don't think people really appreciate the physiological differences between biological men and biological women. There are some great biological women boxers, but they will never have the power in their punch or ability to withstand a punch from a biological man long-term. Male boxers have 2.6 times the punch force of a female boxers. You're talking about the difference of something like getting hit with a light softball bat and a solid metal 2x4. Hopefully that makes sense. Some woman is eventually going to end up severely injured or killed if this keeps going.

@@KaiDecadence Also Khelif was saying that they appealed the IBA's decision, but dropped it, but couldn't afford to appeal or something of that nature. Well, I looked up the cost of appealing the IBA's decision to the Court of Arbitration for Sports and it's $1000. That is chump change compared to what Khelif would have lost by not being allowed to fight and losing key career matches. Do you know how much female boxers get for participating or winning boxing matches? Tens of thousands up to hundreds of thousands of dollars and necessary titles to build their boxing portfolio/career. So it would make no sense that Khelif was willing to lose that much money and their boxing career over a $1000 appeal, which I guarantee Kheli had, Khelif's coaches had or boxing organization/club in Algeria had? Khelif's net worth was at least up $500,000 from participating on the woman's adult boxing circuit and people think this person is broke? They will be making even more money now from the Olympic win and sponsorship deals that will probably come their way. The IBA even offered to help with the cost of Khelif's appeal and another genetic test. So Khelif's story doesn't make sense. Khelif's failure to appeal likely had nothing to do with money. And the fact that Khelif still have not sued the IBA for lost wages and damages make no sense. It's not adding up. They literally banned from boxing in most competitions (with the exception of the Olympics for now) so it would not make sense to not appeal or even sue for damages over the potential loss of their boxing career and future earnings. Not sure how people can't see this whole story is suspicious.

@-metaknight-1135 As far as TIFs using men's bathrooms, by principle, I think they shouldn't be doing that at all and shouldn't be entering. Do I think that TIFs are putting themselves at risk? To a small degree, yes. The reason why i say "small" though is that TIFs don't cause near as much a ruckus and pull the BS that TIMs do in women's restrooms so unless the TIF is being a creep, I don't think she's as much a risk unless she doesn't look ultra masculine. And as far as a category for TIFs in Blanchard's theory, sure because in his original study, he focused predominantly on men and not much on women.

Thanks haha

Thank you

If a person with a DSD falls for trans ideology and thinks that they are the opposite sex, they are just as delusional as a person who doesn't have a DSD.

After putting all my time in looking to trans ideology to see what a big lie it all is, as far as "gender dypshoria" is concerned, I don't think it's "real" in the way "trans"rights activists try to spin it. "Gender" is not sex ad if you take the phrase for what it really means, it would be someone feeling discomfort for not conforming to socially constructed stereotypes pushed onto people based on their sex. And as I've already explained extensively in the video, they are just that,stereotypes. This video explains it perfectly. > ruclips.net/video/Fma8wYHzsSE/видео.html And I didn't say that Blanchard said that gay men "transition" for straight men, that is something that I've observed myself with how some of these HSTS complain how they can't get men who are straight and sometimes cry "internalized homophobia" concerning them.

@@KaiDecadenceWhat about dysphoria over sex characteristics?

@@-metaknight-1135 Same deal as people with no DSD, you get over it and cope like any other sane person does. Look, if the person with the DSD gets cosmetic unnecessary surgery, that doesn't make them anymore of the opposite sex than a person who doesn't have a DSD.

@@KaiDecadence okay thank you kai, lol this makes alot of sense. I’m tired of the modern day alt community constantly pandering to transgender ideology. the trans kids are the new emo kids. Ur a great example of a GNC alt person who doesn’t subscribe to trans ideology

@-metaknight-1135 no problem and in a way you're right but I think the trans trend is much more dangerous because of the drugs and surgeries. At most with emo, you just dyed and cut your hair and sat in your angst butbdidnt really harm yourself (unless you self harmed but that can be temporary and effects reversible) taking uberty blockers and/or wrong sex hormones can damage your health for life.

I kinda talked about that in my "Unpopular LGBT Opinons" video but to recap. - Nonbinary = It's just rebranded androgyny but with ridiculous logic thinking that because they don't conform to gender stereotypes of their sex, it means that they're essentially a nothing which is just silly. - Asexual = I think it's very rare but I think most people who claim to be asexual are not. What I've noticed is that a lot of teen girls and early 20s girls say this and it's just because they haven't had their sexual awakening yet (some people don't have those feelings until after high school) and/or they have low sex drives which is also fine but doesn't make them asexual. Asexual means no sex at all and it's annoying how (let's be real), a bunch of young people destroyed the term. - Demisexual = Just a response to hookup culture. At the end of the day most people are "demisexual" as most people would prefer to have sex and/or be in relationships with people they have a bond with. I just believe that this term came about as a reactionary response to the hookup culture of the 2010s which clearly has had some negative fallout as you have more people lonelier than ever when they participate in hookup culture.

@@KaiDecadence Wow, interesting stuff. Thanks for the response!

@@Mister_Don888 No problem. Check out the unpopular opinions video if you want to hear more.

They don't seem like legit things because they are not legit things. Met far too many girls/women with the brains of girls who called themselves "demi/ace", it's clearly a response to something else because they all experienced some form of attraction.

Gender and sex are not the same thing.

@@KaiDecadence no, sex is gender. But this isn’t relevant to what I said, so idk.

No such thing as gender. It would be sexed norms.

Denial is not a river just in Egypt.

@@KaiDecadence There’s no river in Egypt named “Denial.”

No you didn't lmao

@@twocanplay7976 *checks legal documents and medical history*… it appears that I did. Cry about it.

@@sasha_something Aw you paid someone to lie for you. Congratulations, you still didn't change sex <3

Yep that's really all it was. It was the culture's way of othering GNC people instead of just merely accepting it.

Right, I watched the Jubilee video (rolling my eyes the whole time lol)/ I've been round this block long enough to know emotional manipulation when I see it. That "Jessica'" dude would not get bothered in a men's restroom, I guarantee it. So long as he's not acting like a pervert and minding his own business, most dudes would just leave him alone. At most he'd just get a few stares but that is not violence. And you're on the right path, don't fall for the emotional manipulation, no one is forcing him to dress the way he does and if he feels that unsafe being in the men's restroom looking like he does, he can take off the wig and makeup. As a feminine presenting man myself who uses the correct bathroom, I would just tell him to own it but it's all choice at the end of the day. I remember that comment Blaire said and I too, thought it was BS. It doesn't take taking artificial estrogen to gain emotional maturity, it's a matter of just sitting and listening to what it is others are saying and and self-analyzing to process and respond. Most men are socialized to develop pride and ego which is why they don't typically have emotional intelligence out the gate but with time, patience, and learning, men can totally be emotionally intelligent as well. Men like Martin Luther King, Eleanor Rossevelt, David bowie, and Barack Obama are some examples of men who possess emotional intelligence so Blaire can miss me with that silliness lol. And if he means understanding wmen better? Again no. Us feminine men can relate to women on a slight social level but even if a feminine man does take HRT, that doesn't make him get the lived experience of what being a woman is really like, all they have to go on are stereotypes and what they've seen in media.

I doubt that BW was "more emotionally intelligent" after taking estrogen, but he's certainly more prone to various forms of cancer/chronic illness after ingesting that laundry list of hormones and other affiliated drugs.

Labels are not bad, they help people find things that they're interested and this is especially true for music which is why music genres are a thing and this includes Goth. The fact of the matter is that goth is a music-based scene and without the music, there would be no goth period. My question is this, if you know that you don't enjoy goth music, why are you (not you specifically) want to identify as a goth so badly when you don't like the thing that the subculture is centered around? Because goth doesn't have a stranglehold on the dark aesthetic and this is what I was trying to get across in the video while touching up on misconceptions about each thing. I also don't agree that goth is some political thing neither. It's true that back in the 1980s it did skew more towards the democratic party but that was because the conservative party at the time was very ruled by Abrahamic religion(s) and nuclear traditionalist values. But as time went on and more conservative minded people mellowed out and the next generation after the baby boomers and first generation gen x'ers, younger conservative people who came about in the 90s and especially in the 2010s has blurred the line. So no, I don't think that you have to be a democrat to be goth, the music is for anyone to enjoy and listen to.

@KaiDecadence I always say that labels themselves aren't the issue, but it's how people use them instead.

I'm sorry but no, Type O Negative are not a goth band, they were a Thrash Metal turned Gothic Metal band with Doom Metal elements. Gothic Metal is a metal sub-genre, not a goth sub-genre.

Hey there! Yeah I think I'll definitely consider numbering them for sure haha And to answer your question, no I don't get things tailored nor do I sew, I'm just try to be very mindful on whether a garment fits me properly or not, it's a lot of trial and error tbh. And sheer bell bottoms are so nice, you can probably find some on some online thrift shops if you're looking for some :)

First off, Hey! Long time no see, nice to see you're doing alright ☺ Yeah I totally get what you mean, the relationship between the two does feel off and awkward. I think you're right that deep down his mother doesn't actually think he's her daughter but is simply going along with it so she doesn't lose her only offspring. I feel like deep down she also grieves seeing her son go down this path.of self-delusion but can't say anything. He did mention that when he was very young, his mother didn't really accept him and she didn't come around until he was in high school. so that could be another reason why she's going along with it as a way because she might feel guilty for how she treated him when he was very young. As far as Joey goes, he's a closet-case and even if Blaire is in denial of him thinking he's any kind of woman, being with a closet-case is never a great thing to do. Don't be distracted, they are still a gay couple and deep down, I'm sure Blaire knows this whereas Joey is fighting to keep the delusion alive. We've seen how he can't even handle looking at pictures of Blaire when he was young. It's because he doesn't want to break the delusion that's he's not dating a "woman" which gets triggered if he sees photos of Blaire before he started dressing like a bimbo. The off-putting feeling you mention, I believes it's you picking up on how their relationship's foundation is built on a lie. And I get you, deep down the "allies" know that trans-identified people aren't the opposite sex but they go along with it just to be nice.

@bridgetteanimations9996 so long as you show that she likes goth music (actual goth music), it will get the point across that she's a goth, at least to those of us actual goths. Normies may think otherwise because she doesn't look super edgy but these people don't know what goth actually is anyway so just ignore them lol.

@@KaiDecadence can a goth character like other genre music or just goth music?

@@bridgetteanimations9996 Yes they can but again, just make it known that the character likes goth music alongside otherwise it won't translate that the character is a goth.