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Kai Decadence
Добавлен 25 июн 2009
Hello there viewer and welcome to my channel. I'm just a relatively simple guy who enjoys art, video games, music, and has an interest in the Goth Subculture. I hope that you enjoy your stay!
P.S: If you're interested in gaming/vdieo game content, feel free to check out my second account here that is mainly for gaming.
P.S: If you're interested in gaming/vdieo game content, feel free to check out my second account here that is mainly for gaming.
☥ MY STYLE LOOKBOOK #4 | Kai Decadence
A compilation of some looks I did from late 2022 and 2023 🙂
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☥ Music
The Plague - "Vampyre"
Presence - "Distortion"
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☥ Music
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Presence - "Distortion"
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Видео
The TRUTH About Blaire White
Просмотров 7 тыс.6 месяцев назад
Hey there everyone, in this video I talk about Blaire White with a critical analysis. Blaire is considered to be "true trans" and it's about time that he was taken to task. ▶ My view on Trans Ideology: ruclips.net/video/OEbxA6F-WeE/видео.html
☥ MY STYLE LOOKBOOK #3 | Kai Decadence
Просмотров 2,3 тыс.Год назад
A collection of different looks that I wore back in 2021 to about mid-late 2022 🙂 ☥ Enjoyed the video? Don't forget to like, comment, & subscribe for more videos! ruclips.net/channel/UCfK_vq2yJ83qcpI2mEkbVVA ☥ Instagram: kai_decadence ☥ Enjoy Video Games? Check out my Video Game channel where I do reviews, Top 10s, and general discussion videos about Video Games here! ruclips.net...
The TRUTH About Trans
Просмотров 15 тыс.Год назад
It's time to talk about the truth about the transgender ideology. I know that this video is quite long and I suggest watching it in parts if you're someone who doesn't like watching long-form content. That all being said, thanks for watching the video to the end if you did and I've spoken my peace. 𝐑𝐞𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐦𝐞𝐧𝐝𝐞𝐝 𝐂𝐡𝐚𝐧𝐧𝐞𝐥𝐬 𝐓𝐨 𝐋𝐨𝐨𝐤 𝐢𝐧𝐭𝐨 ▶ TT Exulansic ~ www.youtube.com/@islesofex/videos (Explains ab...
☥ MY GOTH LOOKBOOK #2 | Kai Decadence
Просмотров 4,8 тыс.2 года назад
A collection of different looks I've done over the year, mainly around the summer and early fall. I hope you enjoy the video! ☥ Enjoyed the video? Don't forget to like, comment, & subscribe for more videos! ruclips.net/channel/UCfK_vq2yJ83qcpI2mEkbVVA ☥ Instagram: kai_decadence ☥ Enjoy Video Games? Check out my Video Game channel where I do reviews, Top 10s, and general discussio...
My UNPOPULAR LGBT OPINIONS | Honest TRUTH | Kai Decadence
Просмотров 16 тыс.3 года назад
A very important video that I felt that I needed to make since I am a Gay man and with how things have been going when it comes to the "LGBT", I feel that it's time for me to be honest on certain things concerning the "community". There's no doubt that this will probably be one of the most controversial and contentious videos I've done but I want to be transparent with how I feel.
MY GOTH LOOKBOOK - AUTUMN INSPIRED ☥ | Kai Decadence
Просмотров 3,7 тыс.3 года назад
I've recently been refining my own personal style and trying to add more of a Romantic tone to my aesthetic. This is just a little showcase of some of my outfits that I've worn this year. That all said, I hope you enjoyed the video! ☥ Enjoyed the video? Don't forget to like, comment, & subscribe for more videos! ruclips.net/channel/UCfK_vq2yJ83qcpI2mEkbVVA ☥ Instagram: kai_decaden...
FAB FRINGE by Sensationnel WIG REVIEW + TRANSFORMATION | Kai Decadence
Просмотров 4 тыс.3 года назад
This is a wig that I've been using for quite a long while now and in this video I review the wig as well as show my process of how I transform my wigs to fit my own preferred hair style! 𝐇𝐚𝐢𝐫 𝐋𝐢𝐧𝐤 ~www.samsbeauty.com/service/Sensationnel-Human-Hair-Wig-Premium-Now-Bump-Fab-Fringe-g-HBFFRINGE.html Color #1 ☥ Enjoyed the video? Don't forget to like, comment, & subscribe for more videos! ruclips.n...
Quick Update Video!
Просмотров 2,3 тыс.3 года назад
Hey there guys, just doing a quick little update video to give a heads up about some of the new videos I have coming up to the channel~ ☥ Enjoyed the video? Don't forget to like, comment, & subscribe for more videos! ruclips.net/channel/UCfK_vq2yJ83qcpI2mEkbVVA ☥ RedBubble Shop: www.redbubble.com/people/DecadentCrypt/explore?asc=u&page=1&sortOrder=recent ☥ Instagram: kai_decadence...
Is Goth RACIST? (The Honest Truth) | Kai Decadence
Просмотров 10 тыс.4 года назад
There's been some talk in recent years about how the Goth scene is racist (or at least subtly racist) but is this really true? In this video, I go into these claims and discuss them. ☥ Enjoyed the video? Don't forget to like, comment, & subscribe for more videos! ruclips.net/channel/UCfK_vq2yJ83qcpI2mEkbVVA ☥ Instagram: kai_decadence ☥ Enjoy Video Games? Check out my Video Game c...
My Goth Lookbook ☥ | Kai Decadence
Просмотров 2,2 тыс.4 года назад
These are some of my everyday looks I've recently done dating back to Fall of 2019! I've been trying to throw in some more Romantic style elements and it's been pretty fun implementing that into my overall look. I hope you enjoy and hope that it helps inspire some of you! ☥ Enjoyed the video? Don't forget to like, comment, & subscribe for more videos! ruclips.net/channel/UCfK_vq2yJ83qcpI2mEkbVV...
RedBubble Open! (Macabre / Darkly-Inclined) | Kai Decadence
Просмотров 9864 года назад
Hey there everyone, this is just a quick little announcement video for my RedBubble shop where I am selling Macabre & Darkly-Inclined merch! From classic horror icons to creepily cut cats and notable Goth musicians, you'll find all kinds of stuff here! ► RedBubble Shop ~ www.redbubble.com/people/DecadentCrypt/shop?asc=u - Use the "Explore Designs" feature to see all the designs available! ☥ Enj...
How to get into GOTH (What is GOTH?) | Kai Decadence
Просмотров 22 тыс.4 года назад
Hey there everyone! So in this video I go over how to get into the Goth scene. I mostly go over some tips on how to ease into the genre (or rather, sub-genres) of Goth as well as some other important things to keep in mind on your journey into the scene! This is another pretty long video so I highly suggest grabbing a drink and snack if you plan to watch because I'm gonna be covering a lot of s...
The Problem with "GOTH" Characters (GOTH vs GOTHIC vs DARK)
Просмотров 51 тыс.4 года назад
Hey there guys, in this video I'll be going over characters from media be them Animated or Live-Action that have been labeled as "Goth" and why a lot of them just aren't but do either fall into the style of Gothic or Darkly-Inclined. I also give some tips and advice on how to create a character that fall into any of these 3 styles. This one is a long one so I suggest you get a drink and a snack...
The Project GOTH Playlist Tag | Kai Decadence
Просмотров 1,9 тыс.5 лет назад
Hey there guys! Participating in a new tag series created by The House of Wyvern called "The Project Goth Playlist Tag" which is a music-base tag focused solely Goth-specific music. ☥ QUESTIONS ► 1. Suggest a Band ► 2. How did you find this band? ► 3. Background Information (History, Members, Albums, etc.) ► 4. Suggest some tracks ☥ Enjoyed the video? Don't forget to like, comment, & subscribe ...
The GOTH Music Tag (ORIGINAL) | Kai Decadence
Просмотров 2,9 тыс.5 лет назад
The GOTH Music Tag (ORIGINAL) | Kai Decadence
Goth Summer Outfits | Kai Decadence
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Goth Summer Outfits | Kai Decadence
10 Gothic Outfits Part 2 | Kai Decadence
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10 Gothic Outfits Part 2 | Kai Decadence
Top 10 Gothic Characters in Video Games (Promo)
Просмотров 2,6 тыс.6 лет назад
Top 10 Gothic Characters in Video Games (Promo)
Goth Music, An Honest Response | Kai Decadence
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Goth Music, An Honest Response | Kai Decadence
Goths for Sophie Project | Kai Decadence
Просмотров 2 тыс.7 лет назад
Goths for Sophie Project | Kai Decadence
Goth Reacts to 40 Years of Mens Goth Style | Kai Decadence
Просмотров 17 тыс.7 лет назад
Goth Reacts to 40 Years of Mens Goth Style | Kai Decadence
My Style Evolution: Goth/Alternative
Просмотров 6 тыс.7 лет назад
My Style Evolution: Goth/Alternative
The goth fashion is amazing 😊
100% truth. As someone who lived as a transwoman for years before detransitioning, the basis for my identity as a girl stemmed from past trauma, internalized homophobia, stereotypes and generalizations. Ironically, I came across your video on a trans forum where some were arguing that you must be trans-in-denial because you have an avatar with a "female fat distribution." That mentality shows how regressive trans ideology is: "if you're a man who likes looking at all feminine, then you're actually a transwoman." I'm a biological male who's 5'4", <110 lbs., with 23% body fat, a waist measurement of 24 and a hip measurement of 34. This figure is not unique to females, and having/wanting to have it is not proof of being trans.
I guess I shouldn't be surprised that my video is probably being posted in trans forums since it's one of the most comprehensive ones out thee but yeah, the way it's being perceived thinking I'm "trans indenial" is just a cope on their end. It's okay to be a feminine man and a masculine woman and hopefully with time, they will understand that.
@KaiDecadence I swear the way people talk about you on these forums and profiles from different social media platforms is excessively aggressive... Despite your criticisms on transgenderism, you never once come off as 'hateful' or 'bigoted'. You simply explain why you don't believe you can change yourself sex and how it's not a healthy ideology, but folks make you out to be this terrible person who harasses others or as they put it, "spread propaganda". I'll say it again, it's really admirable how you stand firm in this despite the unfair treatment you get. I try not to place you on a pedestal 😅 but you're definitely strong-willed.
I'd add a like but I don't want to ruin the current number, but trust I like this shit ;)
Thanks lol
Hi Kai, what do you think about the Imane Khelif and Lin Yu-Ting incident with womens boxing at the Olympics?
Hello. I actually made a community post about it but to give the cliff notes, it's absolutely shameful. Both of those men are cheats and never should've been allowed to compete in women's sports. I really hope that Khelif gets his gold medal revoked and goes onto the proverbial wall of shame alongside with Lia Thomas, Fallon Fox, and Laurel Hubbard.
@KaiDecadence oh cool. How do I check out your community post? Yeah agree with you. I think they both knew they are men. I was told that coaches actually go around looking for biological men with DSDs who they can tout off as women in sports. These gender self ID laws and gender passport laws in lot of countries allowed this to happen.
@@9395gb If you go on my RUclips page, click the "community" tab and you'll see it. The IOC tested positive for them being men last year and disqualified them but for some reason they let them compete in the women's sports this year, it's just messed up. And yeah I heard about that as well and it can make sense why they'd scout them in less developed countries that they can use to sneak them in.
@@KaiDecadence Well I know people in the boxing world and they said there were multiple complaints about Imane Khelif and Lin Yu-Ting for years even before the International Boxing Association did their investigation. The IBA actually had no choice but to do a test because there were so many complaints and a few of the women boxers were basically ending up badly damaged and injured. I don't think people really appreciate the physiological differences between biological men and biological women. There are some great biological women boxers, but they will never have the power in their punch or ability to withstand a punch from a biological man long-term. Male boxers have 2.6 times the punch force of a female boxers. You're talking about the difference of something like getting hit with a light softball bat and a solid metal 2x4. Hopefully that makes sense. Some woman is eventually going to end up severely injured or killed if this keeps going.
@@KaiDecadence Also Khelif was saying that they appealed the IBA's decision, but dropped it, but couldn't afford to appeal or something of that nature. Well, I looked up the cost of appealing the IBA's decision to the Court of Arbitration for Sports and it's $1000. That is chump change compared to what Khelif would have lost by not being allowed to fight and losing key career matches. Do you know how much female boxers get for participating or winning boxing matches? Tens of thousands up to hundreds of thousands of dollars and necessary titles to build their boxing portfolio/career. So it would make no sense that Khelif was willing to lose that much money and their boxing career over a $1000 appeal, which I guarantee Kheli had, Khelif's coaches had or boxing organization/club in Algeria had? Khelif's net worth was at least up $500,000 from participating on the woman's adult boxing circuit and people think this person is broke? They will be making even more money now from the Olympic win and sponsorship deals that will probably come their way. The IBA even offered to help with the cost of Khelif's appeal and another genetic test. So Khelif's story doesn't make sense. Khelif's failure to appeal likely had nothing to do with money. And the fact that Khelif still have not sued the IBA for lost wages and damages make no sense. It's not adding up. They literally banned from boxing in most competitions (with the exception of the Olympics for now) so it would not make sense to not appeal or even sue for damages over the potential loss of their boxing career and future earnings. Not sure how people can't see this whole story is suspicious.
We all know that goths are people who listen to goth music but in movies and series the stigma and stereotype is the one that stands out. How do we know if a certain character is goth if she doesn't look goth? These characters are considered goth based on looks/appearance alone. I don't think they ever revealed the music that the character listens to and even if they did it's usually not gothic music because it's underground music as opposed to punk and metal. People outside the scene only know Gothic fashion and nothing beyond. My mom has no idea what goth or even metal is. When she looks at my outfit she always says "you look like those goths" which is ironic because I really am a goth because I listen to the music but she doesn't understand it because she is outside the community.
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What is your opinion on TIFs going into men’s bathrooms? Are they putting themselves at risk? + Do you think there is a third category of ROGD “gender non conforming trans” people, who usually have body image issues? For example, TIFs who claim to be gay men.
@-metaknight-1135 As far as TIFs using men's bathrooms, by principle, I think they shouldn't be doing that at all and shouldn't be entering. Do I think that TIFs are putting themselves at risk? To a small degree, yes. The reason why i say "small" though is that TIFs don't cause near as much a ruckus and pull the BS that TIMs do in women's restrooms so unless the TIF is being a creep, I don't think she's as much a risk unless she doesn't look ultra masculine. And as far as a category for TIFs in Blanchard's theory, sure because in his original study, he focused predominantly on men and not much on women.
I just saw your GC video and i went looking for who was this creator. You're so cool! More power to you!
Thanks haha
Man, respect for your really thorough smart breakdown of the whole topic. A non gender conforming male here: i was always so disappointed by other gay people who wanted to perpetuate the weird power relations between men and women within same sex relationships. I naively thought gay people at least could treat each other as equals.
Thank you
What do you think about intersex individuals who “transition”?
If a person with a DSD falls for trans ideology and thinks that they are the opposite sex, they are just as delusional as a person who doesn't have a DSD.
Do you think gender dysphoria is real? Blanchard himself never said that HSTS transition to date heterosexual men
After putting all my time in looking to trans ideology to see what a big lie it all is, as far as "gender dypshoria" is concerned, I don't think it's "real" in the way "trans"rights activists try to spin it. "Gender" is not sex ad if you take the phrase for what it really means, it would be someone feeling discomfort for not conforming to socially constructed stereotypes pushed onto people based on their sex. And as I've already explained extensively in the video, they are just that,stereotypes. This video explains it perfectly. > ruclips.net/video/Fma8wYHzsSE/видео.html And I didn't say that Blanchard said that gay men "transition" for straight men, that is something that I've observed myself with how some of these HSTS complain how they can't get men who are straight and sometimes cry "internalized homophobia" concerning them.
@@KaiDecadenceWhat about dysphoria over sex characteristics?
@@-metaknight-1135 Same deal as people with no DSD, you get over it and cope like any other sane person does. Look, if the person with the DSD gets cosmetic unnecessary surgery, that doesn't make them anymore of the opposite sex than a person who doesn't have a DSD.
@@KaiDecadence okay thank you kai, lol this makes alot of sense. I’m tired of the modern day alt community constantly pandering to transgender ideology. the trans kids are the new emo kids. Ur a great example of a GNC alt person who doesn’t subscribe to trans ideology
@-metaknight-1135 no problem and in a way you're right but I think the trans trend is much more dangerous because of the drugs and surgeries. At most with emo, you just dyed and cut your hair and sat in your angst butbdidnt really harm yourself (unless you self harmed but that can be temporary and effects reversible) taking uberty blockers and/or wrong sex hormones can damage your health for life.
I just thought of something to ask you Kai. What's your opinion on, non-binary, asexual, or demisexual? Honestly for me, they don't seem like legit things.
I kinda talked about that in my "Unpopular LGBT Opinons" video but to recap. - Nonbinary = It's just rebranded androgyny but with ridiculous logic thinking that because they don't conform to gender stereotypes of their sex, it means that they're essentially a nothing which is just silly. - Asexual = I think it's very rare but I think most people who claim to be asexual are not. What I've noticed is that a lot of teen girls and early 20s girls say this and it's just because they haven't had their sexual awakening yet (some people don't have those feelings until after high school) and/or they have low sex drives which is also fine but doesn't make them asexual. Asexual means no sex at all and it's annoying how (let's be real), a bunch of young people destroyed the term. - Demisexual = Just a response to hookup culture. At the end of the day most people are "demisexual" as most people would prefer to have sex and/or be in relationships with people they have a bond with. I just believe that this term came about as a reactionary response to the hookup culture of the 2010s which clearly has had some negative fallout as you have more people lonelier than ever when they participate in hookup culture.
@@KaiDecadence Wow, interesting stuff. Thanks for the response!
@@Mister_Don888 No problem. Check out the unpopular opinions video if you want to hear more.
They don't seem like legit things because they are not legit things. Met far too many girls/women with the brains of girls who called themselves "demi/ace", it's clearly a response to something else because they all experienced some form of attraction.
“Gay pride was never about gender, it was about homosexual rights” - quick question, why do you think gay people were denied rights and discriminated against? Do you think it might have had something to do with gender norms? Specifically the gender norm that says “men should have sex with women, and vice versa”? It has absolutely everything to do with gender.
Gender and sex are not the same thing.
@@KaiDecadence no, sex is gender. But this isn’t relevant to what I said, so idk.
No such thing as gender. It would be sexed norms.
Definitions of “man” and “woman” based on “biology” are themselves definitions based on stereotypes, specifically gender stereotypes about human bodies. What else could they possibly be?
I changed my sex. It’s great, would recommend.
Denial is not a river just in Egypt.
@@KaiDecadence There’s no river in Egypt named “Denial.”
No you didn't lmao
@@twocanplay7976 *checks legal documents and medical history*… it appears that I did. Cry about it.
@@sasha_something Aw you paid someone to lie for you. Congratulations, you still didn't change sex <3
Is Have a Nice Life goth? I know that pretty much almost all of their songs and albums contains some subgenres of goth as I see, but I just want to be sure cause I don't have any knowledge in music in general at all!
This is just an idea of mine i came up to understand why the third gender exists. For me personally the idea that a third gender is purely constructed out of homophobia and an intolerance towards GNC people seems a bit reductive, maybe there were some who would like to be referred to as the other gender too, since societies for the most part tend to deal with those things with denial, erasure or murder. so its simple solution to the question of gender roles instead of actually making society more inclusive and simple societal roles/rules tend to last longer.
Yep that's really all it was. It was the culture's way of othering GNC people instead of just merely accepting it.
Love ya Chanel o so much keep up the darkly delightful work my guy!!!🦇🖤❤️🖤❤️🖤🦇🦇
I won't be surprised if the b1g ph4rma is connected to this madness. Pushing gender ideology left and right and throwing children's long-term well-being outta window just to sell more drugs.
the two spirit label was also used for women.
27:27 - 27:38 about this, in the jubilee video that featured blaire, other trans-identifed or transsexuals were present who wanted to make it clear that women spaces ARE for biological women, and i felt that by them saying this would only make women sympathize with them more enough to want to allow them in female-only spaces. one going by Jessica saying "i choose to use the men's bathrooms to protect women." As heartfelt as it was, this made me realize just how dangerous allowing this feeling of pity and empathy is because it contradicts all of my morals. I understand it was very respectful, but this decision to now allow and accept any man identifying as a woman to enter as long as he can say the bare minimum is just as insulting. on top of that, blaire also said that she was "more emotionally intelligent" after taking estrogen. I'm not too sure how i feel about that, even though Blaire was saying women are emotionally intelligent, i don't think taking hrt makes you understand what being a woman is like or see through the lens of a woman just because you more emotional i guess. it just reminds me of those misogynistic twitter posts from tims saying "estrogen made me so airheaded and a crybaby" and... yeah. well, maybe not on the same level, but, u get it. it's all so tiring.
Right, I watched the Jubilee video (rolling my eyes the whole time lol)/ I've been round this block long enough to know emotional manipulation when I see it. That "Jessica'" dude would not get bothered in a men's restroom, I guarantee it. So long as he's not acting like a pervert and minding his own business, most dudes would just leave him alone. At most he'd just get a few stares but that is not violence. And you're on the right path, don't fall for the emotional manipulation, no one is forcing him to dress the way he does and if he feels that unsafe being in the men's restroom looking like he does, he can take off the wig and makeup. As a feminine presenting man myself who uses the correct bathroom, I would just tell him to own it but it's all choice at the end of the day. I remember that comment Blaire said and I too, thought it was BS. It doesn't take taking artificial estrogen to gain emotional maturity, it's a matter of just sitting and listening to what it is others are saying and and self-analyzing to process and respond. Most men are socialized to develop pride and ego which is why they don't typically have emotional intelligence out the gate but with time, patience, and learning, men can totally be emotionally intelligent as well. Men like Martin Luther King, Eleanor Rossevelt, David bowie, and Barack Obama are some examples of men who possess emotional intelligence so Blaire can miss me with that silliness lol. And if he means understanding wmen better? Again no. Us feminine men can relate to women on a slight social level but even if a feminine man does take HRT, that doesn't make him get the lived experience of what being a woman is really like, all they have to go on are stereotypes and what they've seen in media.
I doubt that BW was "more emotionally intelligent" after taking estrogen, but he's certainly more prone to various forms of cancer/chronic illness after ingesting that laundry list of hormones and other affiliated drugs.
Tho I really loved your way of creating an interesting material and explaining things in depth, I disagree with most things said in this video… As a person who’s been goth for several years, I thing we shoul put less focus on putting „labels” on certain things and be more open-minded. If we strictly followed categories represented in this video, we could easily misinterprete someone who’s actually goth as a non-goth. Also! There are much more goth characters in movies than you’ve mentioned! I feel like this video has some kind of a not so friendly attitude towards other goth subculture enjoyers and might scare sb off or make them feel not included. For me, being goth is listening to goth music and following certain political views. As long as you do both you’re welcome, you don’t have to dress goth and you can absolutely do lot’s of things that arent considered goth. In fact, many of my goth friends don’t look goth at all when you look at them. The same goes for characters for my. But that’s just my opinion and I’m not attacking you or anything. I respect your point of view ;3
Labels are not bad, they help people find things that they're interested and this is especially true for music which is why music genres are a thing and this includes Goth. The fact of the matter is that goth is a music-based scene and without the music, there would be no goth period. My question is this, if you know that you don't enjoy goth music, why are you (not you specifically) want to identify as a goth so badly when you don't like the thing that the subculture is centered around? Because goth doesn't have a stranglehold on the dark aesthetic and this is what I was trying to get across in the video while touching up on misconceptions about each thing. I also don't agree that goth is some political thing neither. It's true that back in the 1980s it did skew more towards the democratic party but that was because the conservative party at the time was very ruled by Abrahamic religion(s) and nuclear traditionalist values. But as time went on and more conservative minded people mellowed out and the next generation after the baby boomers and first generation gen x'ers, younger conservative people who came about in the 90s and especially in the 2010s has blurred the line. So no, I don't think that you have to be a democrat to be goth, the music is for anyone to enjoy and listen to.
@KaiDecadence I always say that labels themselves aren't the issue, but it's how people use them instead.
Trubbish is my boy
I feel like it might seem old but Type O Negative is a great heavier recommendation. Goth(ic) Metal is a thing, though a very small and hardly popular subgenre. Great video!
I'm sorry but no, Type O Negative are not a goth band, they were a Thrash Metal turned Gothic Metal band with Doom Metal elements. Gothic Metal is a metal sub-genre, not a goth sub-genre.
Hey Kai! Perhaps your next look book you can number them so we can tell you our faves! The best and tie with the sheer shirt underneath fits like a glove. Do you have your clothes tailored or do you sew? Everything fits so well! I also love the sheer lace bell bottoms. I need some for a bikini coverup! So cute... im in love 🥰
Hey there! Yeah I think I'll definitely consider numbering them for sure haha And to answer your question, no I don't get things tailored nor do I sew, I'm just try to be very mindful on whether a garment fits me properly or not, it's a lot of trial and error tbh. And sheer bell bottoms are so nice, you can probably find some on some online thrift shops if you're looking for some :)
hii me again, but i love your confidence to speak about this because honestly... this feels *very* cathartic as someone who was bicurious for a while to know I'm not crazy haha. I learned the hard way that many women-only spaces include males who identify as women so much so, the dating scene for lesbians has gotten so complicated, basically disguised homophobia... I get called so many things and have gotten much hate for having the same opinions, and I know many people would never dare say these takes publicly, even if they strongly believe it, since it would be controversial. we can't even allow people to be honest with themselves without believing it's their own problem. I'm just very admirable of you how it isn't your concern to be politically correct, but to speak your truth and remind people what homosexuality means. it's gotten to the point where anything can be added to LGB and it's just insulting! anyway sorry for long lanky ramble. everything you do is with confidence and passion and i envy it!!
Gonna post a bunch of comments with my thoughts on this. I've seen Blaire interact with his mom before on a video and it gives me a weird feeling that I can't accurately describe. It's like uncanny but it's more....like, it doesn't feel like a genuine mother daughter connection, it feels more like a spectacle. It's more like she's just supporting her son as a son who's hyper fixated on something, because she should support him because she's his mom. Idk if that makes sense. Its not the same kind of natural acceptance between mother and daughter. Similar with Blaire and Joey. While Joey appears to he have a more romantic and natural acceptance of Blaire... I can't help but feel there's an underlining feeling of things being unnatural between all parties. It's not just isolating to watch, but it must he alienating to be them. They're not naturally a heterosexual couple and they don't fit together like one. They don't even fit together like a gay couple because of that denial Blaire holds so strongly within himself. I think it's that denial of reality that makes it feel so off putting. I'm not trying to say there's a world in which this could ever be natural. It never will. I'm just postulating that this goes beyond Blaire and this is how all "allies" treat their trans friends and/or family. It's not natural. It's forced and uncanny. You're only "accepted" on principle, not because you are who you claim to be.
First off, Hey! Long time no see, nice to see you're doing alright ☺ Yeah I totally get what you mean, the relationship between the two does feel off and awkward. I think you're right that deep down his mother doesn't actually think he's her daughter but is simply going along with it so she doesn't lose her only offspring. I feel like deep down she also grieves seeing her son go down this path.of self-delusion but can't say anything. He did mention that when he was very young, his mother didn't really accept him and she didn't come around until he was in high school. so that could be another reason why she's going along with it as a way because she might feel guilty for how she treated him when he was very young. As far as Joey goes, he's a closet-case and even if Blaire is in denial of him thinking he's any kind of woman, being with a closet-case is never a great thing to do. Don't be distracted, they are still a gay couple and deep down, I'm sure Blaire knows this whereas Joey is fighting to keep the delusion alive. We've seen how he can't even handle looking at pictures of Blaire when he was young. It's because he doesn't want to break the delusion that's he's not dating a "woman" which gets triggered if he sees photos of Blaire before he started dressing like a bimbo. The off-putting feeling you mention, I believes it's you picking up on how their relationship's foundation is built on a lie. And I get you, deep down the "allies" know that trans-identified people aren't the opposite sex but they go along with it just to be nice.
Just opened up this video and below it, theres a window mentioning the trevor project. How sick and evil. They don't care about gay people's lives at all. They'd rather convert them to "appear straight".
I have a goth character, will people recognize her as goth if she doesn't wear the style on her clothing?
@bridgetteanimations9996 so long as you show that she likes goth music (actual goth music), it will get the point across that she's a goth, at least to those of us actual goths. Normies may think otherwise because she doesn't look super edgy but these people don't know what goth actually is anyway so just ignore them lol.
@@KaiDecadence can a goth character like other genre music or just goth music?
@@bridgetteanimations9996 Yes they can but again, just make it known that the character likes goth music alongside otherwise it won't translate that the character is a goth.